We’re all looking for our soulmates, but they aren’t always easy to find. I’ve known several people who have spent their entire lives with a partner they never fully connected with, while they already had their “one true love” right in front of them: their best friend. I’ve even found myself in this position before. So how do you know if your best friend is also your soulmate? Here are seven signs that point toward the answer:
You Trust Each Other Completely
Trust is the foundation of a successful relationship. Without it, you have nothing. It’s the glue that holds a relationship together, and when trust is missing from your bond with someone else, it can be difficult to see past these trust issues as you try to build something lasting.
When you trust each other completely—and this includes trusting their decisions and opinions—you know that they have your best interests at heart and want what’s best for both of you. That’s why anyone who wants to fall in love needs to find someone who understands them fully before they can hope for true happiness together.
Your Friend Is Your Biggest Cheerleader
When you have a best friend, they are there to support you and cheer for you in every way possible. They understand your strengths and weaknesses as well as the things that make you special. They know when to be serious with you, but also when to joke around and have fun.
Your best friend will always be proud of everything that you do because they know how hard it was for you to get there in the first place! The fact that they love being around people who are successful makes them even more supportive than anyone else would be in their position.
They can also offer advice on how others may view your accomplishments or failures from an outside perspective because they aren’t emotionally invested like most other people would be (because they’re not jealous). This allows them to give constructive criticism without being too harsh or ruining your confidence which is super important if someone really cares about what happens next time around so don’t forget that!
There’s A Clear Attraction
When you’re with your best intimate, you feel a strong emotional attraction. You don’t just like them as a person, but you admire and love them for who they are. You respect their personality and appreciate the way that they carry themselves in the world. Perhaps one of your most attractive qualities is their sense of humor—they have a great sense of humor that makes everyone laugh when they tell jokes or stories. Your attraction goes beyond just physical appearance: you admire their sense of style and how stylishly they dress themselves; perhaps one of your most attractive qualities about them is their fashion sense!
You Just “Get” Each Other
You just get each other. You can finish each other’s sentences, and maybe even predict what the other person will say next. You can read each other’s minds or know what the other person is thinking before they even say it.
You can talk about anything with your best friend, whether serious or silly. You feel comfortable being yourselves around each other—and not having to put on an act for anyone else!
When you’re together, you don’t have to worry about feeling judged because your best friend knows everything about you already anyway!
Your Friend Is The First One You Share News With
You can trust them to be supportive, a good listener, and supportive of your goals. They are trustworthy and good judges of character. They’re honest, they like to communicate openly, and they’re a problem solvers.
This is because the two of you have been through so much together that you’ve become each other’s best friends—and not just “best friend” in the way where one person is always there for the other when something goes wrong but also when things go right. Your best friend has helped motivate you during times when it might have been easy to give up on your dreams or goals; this includes everything from trying out for sports teams as kids all the way up until applying for college today!
You Ask For Their Opinions For Big Matters
If you ask your best friend for their opinion on big matters, it’s a sign of trust. They are the first person you call when you need to talk about big decisions in life. The fact that they’re the first person you turn to is enough of an indicator that they’re someone special to you and that your friendship goes beyond what most people experience as friends.
- You Ask For Their Opinions For Big Matters: When we ask our friends’ opinions on big matters, it shows how much we value their opinions and advice because we believe it will help us make better choices about our lives and futures. While there are times when a certain situation may not be appropriate for someone else’s input (for example, if they don’t have any children or have never been married), asking them for advice shows that we value their opinions highly enough to include them in our decision making process.
You’d Rather Be With Them Than Anyone Else
This is one of the key signs that your best friend is actually your soulmate. If you feel like you’re in love with someone, you’ll want to spend every possible moment with them and won’t mind if other people try to get in the way of that time together. You might even become jealous if they spend time with other people or make plans without including you in them at first.
If this applies to both parties, then it’s likely that there are deeper feelings going on than just friendship alone. The best way for couples who insist on being friends first before considering dating seriously is through platonic dating—where one person dates another but doesn’t have any sexual contact or romantic feelings towards each other until they’re ready—and plenty of communication between both parties so neither feels left out or ignored during the process.
In short, soulmates exist—and sometimes they’re in front of us all along. If you think your best friend is your companion, don’t be afraid to ask those tough questions: could this friendship evolve into more? And if not, is it because we have a genuine difference in values that won’t change? Or are we just scared of losing the great thing we already have? We wish you the best of luck with figuring out these tough questions. In the meantime, remember: love is a beautiful thing regardless of its form. Whether that love is romantic or strictly platonic, it can fill our lives with happiness and joy—and that’s really all that matters in the end!